In addition to the well-known rules (punctuality, recycling), there are small etiquette habits that go unnoticed by Brazilians but can unintentionally create an awkward atmosphere in Germany.
Don’t give an even number of flowers
Giving an even number of flowers is associated with funerals in some regions—the custom is to always give an odd number. It’s also a good idea to remove the paper or plastic wrapping before handing them over, since giving flowers that are still wrapped is considered inelegant.
Toast while looking into the other person’s eyes
When toasting (Prost!), you’re expected to look directly into the other person’s eyes—avoiding eye contact during a toast is seen as a lack of sincerity or even, according to a popular superstition, “7 years of bad luck in the relationship” (an informal but widely repeated belief).
Don’t show up empty-handed
Being invited to dinner at someone’s home without bringing anything (wine, flowers, a dessert) is considered rude—even among close friends, it’s practically an unwritten rule to bring a small gift.
Be careful with personal questions too early
Germans tend to keep their professional and personal lives strictly separate at the beginning of a relationship—questions about salary, relationships, or finances during the first few dates can come across as intrusive, even if the intention is simply to build intimacy.
Tapping your knuckles on the table instead of clapping
In academic settings or during lectures, it’s common to tap your knuckles on the table instead of clapping—a custom that surprises those unfamiliar with German university traditions.
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